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Frequently Asked Questions - 1st June 2009

Below is a few of the questions that we get asked the most. Hopefully it will help.

1. Do we need to be members to come along?
No. Membership is not required or offered by Club Sparty.

2. We used to attend Sparty Parties. Is this Club the same?
Sort of. We do not run parties as such. And an interview is no longer required. However, our position in the Swingers market remains unchanged. We are a totally independent Swingers Club in NZ, run by an actual Swinging Couple (who are living an alternative lifestyle), that has no affiliations with or run by Brothel owners or on Brothel premises.

In our experience (over 18 years) of visiting many, many clubs both here and overseas, it is usually wise to steer clear of any Swingers Club / Events that do not state clearly that they are not a Brothel or being run in a Brothel. If this is not stated, assume they are. And just to emphasise this - Club Sparty is not a Brothel. How can a Brothel / Establishment / Club run 'Couples Only' events if there are ladies 'working' and they allow Single Male patrons? Bears thinking about? Doesn't it? And if there are no Single Male Patrons, how are the 'ladies' going to make any money? Again - Bears thinking about. And calling a Brothel a 'Gentleman's Club' or 'Adult Entertainment Centre' is another ploy. If an establishment has 'ladies' offering sex for money, they are a Brothel. Plain and simple.

We state this as there is a Brothel in the same building, above us, though we are a totally separate business. And yes, we share the same address, but that is as far as it goes. They have no say or influence whatsoever in how Club Sparty is run.

3. How many people attend?
Hard question. At this time we average between 10 to 20 couples a night on Friday / Saturday. And for some reason, Friday sometimes seem to be busier, though not always. Confused?. Same here! We limit the Club to around 30 Couples. And given the size of the Club, it can look 'quiet'. So, don't expect to find lots and lots of people at the Club (This is self defeating anyway. Too many couples = no intimate playing). We chose the premises for this reason. To give our patrons room, and discrete up market facilities. If you want to be packed in like sardines and / or squeezed into a small Bar area, there are other Clubs to attend that will accomodate.

4. Why Is Club Sparty So Successful?
Simple really. We provide a safe, sane, sensual, fun venue for couples to meet other couples. The atmosphere is relaxed and there is no pressure. So people come back time and time again. We know people, some have become friends, that have been attending for many years. And even if you don't meet anyone you click with, rest assured you will still have a great night. We want our patrons to have fun. In whatever form. Oh yes, every night at Club Sparty is different, so at some stage you are going to have fun. This is pretty much guaranteed.

5. What do we wear?
Club Sparty has a dess code of Smart Casual. As long as you are tidy ie: no ripped jeans etc, you will be fine. You can dress up if you like. Think Fetish Gear etc. Try and shock us. We dare you!!!

6. What do we need to bring?
Nothing. We supply towels, condoms etc.

7. I'm a Single Male. Can I come alone on a Couples Night?
No. Never. Don't even ask.

8. Ok, can you help me find a partner to come with?
Again - No. Never. Don't even ask. And please be aware that if you do 'hire' a companion for the night, and we are made aware of this by your behaviour etc, there is a good chance you will asked to leave. Club Sparty is a couples club. Oh yes, if you do hire a 'date', when your 'date' leaves, so do you.

9. What Ages Attend The Club?
The ages of the people attending ranges from late twenties to mid sixties. The bulk of people attending are in their 30's and 40's.

10. What Types of People Attend The Club?
All types, all professions. Club Sparty does not discriminate based on looks, body type, age, job type etc. So you will meet all types.

11. We're Worried About STD's etc. Are you safe?
Although we cannot 100% guarantee that all our attendees are 100% disease free, we can say that in all our years our operation we have not had any reported cases of an STD being passed on to any of our attendees. We, as a club, strongly encourage and practice safer sex. And we are sure that all of our attendees do so as well.

12. What If We Meet Someone We Know?
Relax. The chances of this are slim, but if you do, then remember that you are all there for that same reason. To have fun.

13. We're Very Private People. Are You Discreet?
Of Course. We never disclose any details about you to anyone. Ever. Period.

14. We've heard you (the owners) are Swingers - Do you Play (at the Club)?
Sometimes. Though not often and never when the Club is busy. Somebody's gotta be the host / hostess. Oh yes, we both play, normally as a couple. Though on occasion we can and do have 'special' friends attend the Club. We actually live an alternative lifestlye. And have a happy, strong marriage. Contrary to what you may have heard!